Wednesday, July 25, 2012

35 Ways to Wow Your Guests at Your Wedding


This list is just a start of many ways to “wow” your guests and make your wedding totally you.  Remember, use your creativity, imagination and “Wow Factors” to find even more ways that suit your and your fiance’s unique personalities.

1. A list of trivia questions about you for each table to answer
2. Favors that relate to your hobby or special interest.  Make them edible, if possible.  Everyone likes to eat something.
3.  Childhood photographs of you and your fiancĂ© displayed in an album (also could double as your guest book) or in various frames on a table
4.  Add your parents’ and grandparents’ wedding photos
5. A fantastic theme based on your hobbies, interests, etc.
6. Decorating your Sweetheart Table with mementos or collectibles
7.  Put together a collage of your love letters from a long distance romance
8.  A groom’s cake in honor of your fiancĂ©’s hobby
9.  Choosing your favorite flower for the centerpieces
10.  Playing your favorite teams’ theme song
11.  Doing the silly line dance you and your friends learned in college
12.  Cardboard cutouts of the friend who introduced you but couldn’t be at the wedding
13.  Performances by your professional singer friends, family or guests
14.  Sharing your love story during your ceremony or reception
15.  Giving your guests “table tasks” to do throughout the reception
16.  Playing a game
17.  A special thank you friendship dance with all your guests
18.  Play or dedicate a song to a friend as an inside joke
19.  Wear an item of clothing or jewelry from a beloved family member and share this with your guests
20.  Name your tables to represent one of your favorite Wow Factors
21.  Choose your favorite poems as non-traditional ceremony readings
22.  Photo booth with props for silly photos – can rent or DIY
23.  A scavenger hunt using disposable cameras to “hunt” for images
24.  Announce birthdays, anniversaries, engagements, etc.
25.  Give a dance lesson at your reception
26.  Write special vows that unite your family and friends
27.  Include special ethnic traditions and dances
28.  Play a song or speech together
29.  Make a donation to your favorite charity
30.  Treat your guests to your favorite wine or dessert and tell them about it
31.  Play your guests’ wedding songs
32.  Include your signature animal, team, hobby or activity in your wedding theme
33.  Take Polaroid photos of your guests for your guest book
34.  Have your guests write thoughts and wishes for a “time capsule” you’ll open on your 10th wedding anniversary
35.  Serve your special homemade brownies at the wedding and give your guests the recipe

      Dear Brides:  Don’t know how to determine your “Wow Factors?”  Shoot me an e-mail at: pwilson@smoothweddings.com and I will send you worksheets for FREE to help you find your “Wow Factors.”

Thursday, July 12, 2012

Glamping = camping + glamour


Even though glamping has been around for the last several years, it seems it is becoming the latest trend for honeymoons.

Think of it as a “high-end” camping experience.  You still get the great outdoors, but have the comforts of a four-star hotel.

Apparently, these glamping sites originally started back in Africa and Thailand, but have now been popping up in Europe and the United States.

For your honeymoon, you can find very intimate and secluded sites located in the most scenic, remote and spectacular corners of the world.

Here are some of the more luxury glamping sites you might want to check out for your honeymoon:

Clayoquot Wilderness Resort (www.wildretreat.com) on Vancouver Island in the Clayoquot Sound Biosphere Reserve in British Columbia.

Resort at Paws Up (www.pawsup.com) in Montana.  Both have elegantly furnished tents, which could lure even the most squeamish camper, but the resort is also dedicated to respecting the environment.

The Four Seasons Tented Camp Golden Triangle In Thailand.  Located west of Laos and south of Burma, this site offers honeymooners private panoramic views of Burma’s Ruak River and Laos’ mountains.  You could take a trek with elephants in the morning, an afternoon dip in your private hot tub, and end your evening with a choice of dinner at one of four gourmet establishments set up throughout the camp.

Dear Brides:  Would you consider “glamping” for your honeymoon?  Please comment and share.