Groomzillas

Do you look like the couple in this picture as you are planning your wedding with your groom?

No doubt you have heard the term “bridezilla” and perhaps have even watched the reality show by the same name, but the up and coming “groomzilla” is now starting to rise to stardom.

I just listened to a news segment this morning about how grooms are now becoming more and more involved in the wedding planning. My husband was actually very involved with our wedding planning. He was not a "groomzilla" however. We were in our mid-30’s, no longer living at home with the parents, had our own careers, so we were paying for everything. We are both very administrative and we worked very well together in planning our wedding. But, not all grooms may be so easy-going about it. Some even go so far as having the final say on the bridesmaids dresses down to the choice of shoes or even want to help their bride choose her wedding gown.

As a wedding planner, I love it when the groom is involved in the wedding planning. Afterall, it is his wedding, too. I was such a believer in this that in my wedding, I asked (and he complied) my husband to walk down the aisle. I wanted him to have his shining moment just as much as me.

So, ladies. What about your grooms? Are they “groomzillas” or are they letting you do most of the planning?

Gerbera Daisy Theme

I recently designed flowers for a wedding on June 11. The bride was all about Gerbera daisies. She was specific in that she only wanted white Gerberas with black centers.

I love Gerberas myself. They are so pretty and a very hardy flower that lasts a long time.

I made a Flower Girl head wreath out of daisies, baby's breath and ivy. This was the first time I had the opportunity to make a head wreath. It was a little challenging putting each flower cluster on, but in the end, I think it turned out pretty nice.

I made bouquets, mini-bouquets for the mothers to carry, boutonnieres, corsages, Flower Girl mini-bouquet (as well as the head wreath) and a tossing bouquet.

Enjoy!

Wedding Belles (and whistles) by Kate Spade

Another one of my favorite designers, Kate Spade, recently launched a new line called Wedding Belles (and whistles), “A celebratory collection of little white dresses & colorful accoutrements for every shower and soiree.” Wouldn’t these lovely little white dresses and accessories be perfect to change into for your reception?


source: Kate Spade

Check out the above invitation. Make your appointment now and go if you can. Should be fabulous. Wish I could go.

If you can't make out the fine print on the invitation, here are the details:

May 26 through May 28
Vera Wang on Madison
991 Madison Avenue
New York, NY
Please call for appointment: 212-628-3400

source: Vera Wang

Choosing the Right Metal for Your Wedding Bands

Part of the wedding planning process will be to choose the right metal for your wedding bands.

Here are the details on the most popular metals for wedding bands:

Gold – This is a classic metal that has always symbolized elegance, beauty, and timelessness. Gold can also come in the standard yellow color, white, or pink, meaning you can customize it to your preferences.

Platinum – This beautiful metal is a great alternative to those seeking something other than the classic and traditional look of gold. Platinum is incredibly durable, making it a great choice for a long-lasting and loving relationship. This metal also looks great with a variety of colors, styles, and outfits, making it a fabulous accessory!

Titanium – This metal is becoming more and more popular for men’s wedding bands. It has a lightweight feel and versatile look that helps it fit in perfectly with any style. Titanium also tends to have a more subtle appearance, making it a great choice for anyone who prefers a less-flashy style of ring.

The above information is courtesy of our local Washington, DC Mervis Diamond Importers. Check them out and find your perfect wedding band.

photo credit - Mervis Diamond Importers website

New Postage Rates

New Postage Prices for Wedding Invitations

The United States Postal Service (USPS) has recently changed the price of stamps that affect many wedding invitations and save-the-date cards. If you have yet to mail your invitations you should be aware of these new rates.  Here's a list of sizes and prices that have just changed as of yesterday, April 17, 2011:

• 1st class, 2 oz - $0.64 (previously $0.61)


• 1st class, 2 oz - odd size* - $0.84 (previously $0.81)


• 1st class, 3 oz - $0.84 (previously $0.78)


• 1st class, 3.5 oz - $1.04 (previously $0.95)


• 1st class, 4 oz - $1.48 (previously $1.39)


• Postcards, 1 oz - $.29 (previously $0.28)

First class 1 oz stamps will remain at $0.44. (See all 2011 postage rates)

*odd-size or non-machineable letters include envelopes with clasps or square envelopes.

Two New Wedding-Themed Stamps

On April 22, the post office will also release a new wedding-themed Forever® stamp featuring two white roses.  While this is only a $0.44 stamp for one-ounce mail it does provide an additional wedding-themed stamp at face value (the rings stamp has been available since 2009) to the list of available choices. The old $0.61 wedding cake stamp is now a $0.64 stamp.

Custom Wedding Postage

If you want your wedding invitations to convey a more personal touch, custom postage stamps are a great way to add your personality to the outside of your invites. With over 150,000 design choices, custom stamps continue to grow in popularity among engaged couples. Best of all, custom postage stamps are available for all first-class rates so you can enjoy wedding-themed postage stamps regardless of the size or weight of your invitation.

For more information on custom postage stamps for your wedding visit WeddingStamps.US where you'll find thousands of wedding stamps, rate information, and a weekly giveaway of $25 in custom postage.

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